Preparedness
Ex-Ballerina’s Guilty Verdict Sends Tremors Through Gun-Owner Community
Ashley Benefield, a former ballerina of 33 years, was found guilty in what has been dubbed the “Black Swan” murder trial. Benefield was convicted for the killing of her 58-year-old estranged husband, Doug Benefield, who she shot at her mother’s home in Bradenton, Florida, in 2020.
The couple had a whirlwind romance, meeting at a Republican Party fundraiser in 2016. At that time, Ashley was a young 24-year-old ballerina, and Doug was a 54-year-old Navy veteran and technology consultant. They tied the knot only 13 days after their first encounter.
Though charged with second-degree murder, a Manatee County jury in a Florida courtroom found Benefield guilty of the lesser crime of manslaughter. This crime carries a maximum prison sentence of 15 years in Florida. After the guilty verdict was announced, the presiding judge rescinded Benefield’s $100,000 bond and handed her over to the custody of the Manatee County Sheriff’s Office. Her sentencing date remains unknown.
Benefield’s defense, led by attorney Neil Taylor, argued that the fatal shooting was in self-defense. Taylor painted a picture of Doug as an abusive husband, stating that his client had filed numerous complaints about his abusive behavior with no subsequent action taken by authorities.
“Thirty years older than Ashley, he was obsessed with her, and he successfully portrayed himself as he was not in an effort to win her hand in marriage,” Taylor told the courtroom. He further alleged that Doug was a controlling, manipulative, and cunning man who regularly carried a loaded firearm.
“The only thing that is going to have been established here beyond a reasonable doubt is that Douglas Benefield was a violent abuser, Ashley Benefield’s efforts to placate him [were] absolutely consistent with what abused women do, especially when a child is involved, and that Ashley’s result and resource to deadly force was justified under the circumstances,” Taylor argued.
Their relationship seemed idyllic in the early days, according to Doug’s 23-year-old daughter from a previous marriage, Eva Benefield. “They were just with each other all the time. It was very lovey-dovey. They were very touchy-feely PDAs. Any event with school or extracurricular that I was in, they were together. They never left each other’s side,” Eva said.
A year after their wedding, Ashley was pregnant, and the couple had embarked on Ashley’s dream endeavor — the establishment of a ballet company. However, the relationship started to unravel and led to a court order that restricted the couple from contacting each other.
In the throes of this turmoil, Ashley moved from their South Carolina residence to her mother’s home in Florida while pregnant. She sought a domestic violence injunction against Doug, which would prevent him from seeing their child.
The state prosecutor, Assistant State Attorney Suzanne O’Donnell, portrayed the case as a custody battle that Ashley was determined to win at all costs. “The cost was the life of Doug Benefield, and that is murder,” she argued.
The fatal incident occurred on September 27, 2020, when Doug was allegedly assisting Ashley with moving. An argument ensued, leading Ashley to retrieve a handgun. She claimed that Doug slapped her, blocked her from leaving, and lunged at her, prompting her to shoot him.
Right after the incident, Benefield ran to her neighbor, John Sant’s house, and told him that Doug had attacked her. Sant’s 911 call was played during the trial, capturing Sant’s attempts to calm Ashley down.
However, the prosecutor, O’Donnell, argued that there was no evidence to support Ashley’s claim of physical assault. In contradiction to Ashley’s claim that Doug lunged at her, O’Donnell pointed out that the fatal bullet entered Doug’s body from the side, suggesting he wasn’t facing Ashley when she started shooting.
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Preparedness
Master Weather Prediction With These Tips
For those who live off the land, understanding the weather is not just a matter of convenience but a vital skill. Homesteaders and survivalists often rely on nature’s cues to predict the weather, allowing them to prepare for whatever conditions might arise. Here are five time-tested methods to forecast the weather, just like the mountain men of old.
Understanding atmospheric pressure is fundamental to predicting weather changes. Many natural phenomena, such as wind and rain, are directly influenced by shifts in air pressure. For those familiar with their local climate, gauging atmospheric pressure can provide significant insights into upcoming weather patterns.
One way to measure atmospheric pressure without modern gadgets is by constructing a simple barometer. This can be done using an empty bottle and a bowl of liquid, like oil. By placing the bottle upside-down in the liquid, you can observe changes: rising liquid indicates increased pressure, while falling liquid signals a drop in pressure.
If you lack these materials, starting a fire can also help assess atmospheric pressure. “If the smoke from your fire travels upward in a straight column, then air pressure is low. If falls and hovers around your camp, air pressure is high.”
Cloud observation is another ancient technique for weather prediction, offering clues up to a day in advance. Different cloud types provide different forecasts. Cirrus clouds, which are white and wispy, suggest fair weather. Cirrostratus clouds, on the other hand, indicate moisture is likely within the next 12 to 24 hours. Altostratus and altocumulus clouds both warn of impending storms, with altocumulus often preceding a storm by just a few hours. In contrast, stratocumulus clouds, which are fluffy, signal dry weather ahead. If nimbostratus clouds blanket the sky in gray, it’s probably already raining.
Wind movement is another straightforward way to gauge weather changes. Observing tree branches or simply feeling the wind with your finger can provide valuable insights. Strong winds typically result from significant pressure changes and often precede storms, whereas gentle winds suggest more stable conditions. The direction of the wind also holds clues, though these vary by region. In some areas, a westerly wind indicates fair weather, while an easterly wind might bring rain. It’s crucial to understand local wind patterns to make accurate predictions.
The moon offers another natural indicator of weather changes. A halo around the moon signifies dust particles in the atmosphere, which can herald moisture from a low-pressure system. Similarly, twinkling stars suggest a drop in air pressure. “The twinkling gets stronger when there’s a dip in air pressure,” and humid air can also enhance this effect.
Certain plants have evolved to sense and respond to weather changes, providing another tool for weather prediction. Some flowers remain closed when rain is imminent, while others, like the African Marigold, adjust their opening and closing times based on approaching rain. Observing these natural behaviors can provide early warnings of changing weather conditions.
Mastering these techniques can significantly enhance one’s ability to predict the weather, a critical skill for anyone living close to nature. By honing these methods, you can better prepare for whatever the elements might bring.
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Security Secrets To Safeguard Your Home and Family
While we’d like to think of our homes as sanctuaries removed from societal dangers, the reality is quite different. The U.S. Department of Justice highlights that “Property crime is actually more likely in rural areas than suburban areas.” This increased risk is often due to the remoteness and slower police response times associated with rural living.
To safeguard your property and family, proactive measures are essential. One of the most straightforward and effective deterrents is having a dog. The presence of a dog, whether large or small, can discourage potential intruders. Sometimes, even a “Beware of Dog” sign can be enough to make a burglar think twice.
Lighting is another crucial element of homestead security. Motion-activated lights positioned near entryways and pathways can startle intruders and animal predators alike, providing protection for both your family and your livestock.
Investing in a security system is a wise choice for any homesteader. These systems come in various price ranges, catering to different needs and budgets. For those with limited funds or unreliable internet, battery-operated door and window alarms offer a practical alternative. Video surveillance, too, acts as both a deterrent and a means of gathering evidence should an intruder make their way onto your property.
Perimeter fencing is indispensable. It serves as a physical barrier, keeping animals in and unwanted visitors out. To enhance its effectiveness, ensure gates are lockable. A gate at the end of your driveway requiring visitors to buzz in can add an extra layer of protection.
In a charming anecdote from the Daily Yonder, Donna Kallner recounts, “[Our security system] was never quite as effective as my grandparents’ rural security system: Their farm was at the end of a gravel lane that had to be more than a half-mile long. About halfway down it, there was a big tree where a flock of guinea fowl perched. Any time a vehicle got that far those birds kicked up a ruckus.” While not everyone has guinea fowl, a driveway alarm with wireless monitoring can serve a similar purpose by alerting you to approaching visitors.
Complacency can lead to security oversights. It’s tempting to leave keys in tractors or garages, but this can make expensive equipment easy targets for theft. Ensuring your garage doors are secure is a worthwhile investment, as it prevents costly replacement of stolen items.
A safe is a must-have for any homestead, particularly a fireproof one for safeguarding important documents and valuables. To enhance door security, consider additional measures like deadbolts or door chain stoppers, offering extra time to react in case of an intrusion.
Strategic planting can also bolster security. Thorny plants around the perimeter and spiky bushes beneath windows create natural barriers that deter intruders. Additionally, using pea gravel on walkways can alert you to movement with its distinctive crunch underfoot.
Clear signage is vital, especially in areas frequented by hunters. Posting property markers and signs indicating video surveillance can discourage trespassers. Maintaining an appearance of occupancy is another effective strategy. Keeping a vehicle in the driveway, setting lights on timers, and ensuring the lawn is mowed can all suggest that someone is home.
Finally, fostering a good relationship with neighbors can be invaluable. They can help maintain your property’s appearance when you’re away and keep an eye out for any suspicious activity.
Incorporating these strategies into your homestead security plan can make a significant difference in protecting your property and loved ones.
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Master Winter Power Outages with Essential Prep Tips
When winter storms strike, power outages can be a common, albeit inconvenient, occurrence. However, with a bit of foresight and preparation, you can mitigate the discomfort of these short-term disruptions. The key is to have a plan in place before the lights go out, ensuring that you’re not left scrambling in the dark for essentials like light sources, heat, and food.
A well-prepared “blackout” kit is your first line of defense against the chaos of a power outage. This kit, which can be stored in a bag or tote, should be easily accessible even in the dark. While your cell phone’s flashlight might be a handy tool, relying on it can quickly drain your battery. Therefore, it’s crucial to know how to reach your blackout kit without incident.
Light is a primary concern during any power outage. Your kit should include a variety of lighting options, such as flashlights and headlamps for hands-free use, and a lantern for omni-directional illumination. “At least one flashlight and headlamp per person is recommended.” For families with children, glowsticks can add a bit of fun to the situation. If space allows, solar-powered lighting is a sustainable option, though it may not be feasible for apartment dwellers with limited sunlight exposure. Importantly, candles should be avoided due to the fire hazard they pose, as demonstrated by a tragic incident involving an elderly neighbor during an ice storm.
Having extra batteries for all your flashlights is essential. There’s nothing worse than discovering a dead flashlight when you need it most. Aim to store at least one extra set of batteries, or better yet, two. Limiting your devices to one or two battery types can simplify this process. For an added layer of preparedness, consider including a solar charger and rechargeable batteries in your kit.
In addition to lighting, a combustion device like matches, a BBQ lighter, or a simple BIC lighter is useful, especially if you have a gas stove that may require manual ignition. These items are also handy for heating and cooking, which we’ll explore further.
Staying informed during a power outage is crucial, so a battery-operated or wind-up radio should be part of your kit. “A hand-cranked combo unit that gives you light, USB charging plus a radio too would be a good choice.” This not only keeps you updated on the situation but also provides a morale boost by connecting you to the outside world.
For longer outages, heating becomes a priority. Ideally, a wood stove installed beforehand can address both heating and cooking needs, provided you have a wood supply. If that’s not an option, a fireplace can offer some warmth, though it’s less efficient. To conserve heat, close all vents and doors, and minimize trips outside. Selecting a single room, such as a master bedroom, for everyone to gather can also help retain warmth. Block drafts with towels and cover windows or glass doors with plastic sheeting.
Dressing in layers is crucial for maintaining body warmth. “Warm socks that go up above the calf but that aren’t tight are recommended,” and wearing a stocking hat can further reduce heat loss. For families without a suitable room, “camping” in the living room can be an adventurous alternative, complete with tents or blanket forts.
Sleeping bags are invaluable for keeping everyone warm, and if they’re compatible, zipping two together allows for shared body heat. Don’t forget about your pets, who can also contribute to warmth. For pets in cages or aquariums, wrapping their enclosures with blankets can help conserve heat, and a battery-operated heater or bubbler is a wise investment.
While candles can provide some warmth, they should never be used while sleeping. Instead, portable, non-electric space heaters are a safer option. Ensure any propane heaters are rated for indoor use to avoid carbon monoxide buildup, and always maintain proper ventilation. A working carbon monoxide detector is a must when using any combustion-based heating.
Cooking during a power outage requires some creativity. If you have a wood stove, fireplace, or gas range, you’re in luck. Otherwise, a BBQ or camp stove can be used in a well-ventilated area like a garage with the door partially open. It’s critical to avoid using charcoal or kerosene indoors due to the rapid buildup of CO2.
For indoor cooking, a sterno or “canned heat” stove is a safe bet. These canisters burn long enough to prepare simple meals like scrambled eggs or heated soups. Alternatively, a denatured alcohol stove provides clean-burning heat without the risk of gas leaks, though it requires cooling before refueling.
By organizing and storing your supplies in an easily accessible location, you can significantly ease the stress of a short-term power outage. With a bit of planning, you can also expand your preparations for longer-lasting disruptions, ensuring you’re ready for whatever winter throws your way.
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Carl
August 3, 2024 at 12:22 pm
Maybe, just maybe, he turned at the last second realizing she was going to shoot. President Trump is a perfect example of how that works. If he hadnt turned he would be dead. Unfortunately or fortunately, it didnt work for this guy🤔
David Veselenak
August 3, 2024 at 1:28 pm
Bitch got away with murder, that simple! There is now a plethora of ” domestic violence” KILLINGS. aka MURDERS that are being invoked! It’s easy to portray this when the so-called perpetrator is not able to repute the charges which now are made-up fairy tales! I don’t see someone that was kind enough to assist in her/it’s moving all of a sudden turning into an ogre! This bitch got away with murder, as have several others that hadn’t reported such behavior by their spouse! WTFU, TRANSFORMED and TRANSGENDERED AMERIKA, you’ve been had, hope your glad as your demise neighs!
Don
August 3, 2024 at 3:18 pm
She should have just left to parts unknown. Now she is going to jail and he is dead. We will never know the real story.
Holly
August 3, 2024 at 7:28 pm
I side with the woman, she was pregnant & left to stay at her mothers, she tried to get away from him. Abusers can be very controlling & manipulating, I say this from past experiences. They try to keep you from your friends & family. They tear you down mentally & emotionally & physically. Horrible that she has to spend time in prison & hopefully her mother can keep the baby for her & he does not get custody!
Don
August 4, 2024 at 10:20 am
Knowing that part of the country as I do I’d tend to believe her story. Abuse is common.
Bill Clay
August 23, 2024 at 10:00 pm
Based on the critical evidence the 12 jurors agreed she made a bad choice by choosing manslaughter. She trusted him to help move.
RobertC
September 17, 2024 at 7:44 pm
Holly, It’s apparent from your comment that you either didn’t read the article or didn’t comprehend what you read. She wasn’t “left” to stay with her mother, she chose to move there and he was actually helping her move. You’re hoping that “her mother can keep the baby for her and he does not get custody” – that would be rather difficult since HE’S DEAD. Your typical knee-jerk reaction of believing all women regardless of circumstances has no place in a fair and just society. Is it possible that he was abusive and she acted in self defense? Absolutely. Is it also possible that she was willing to resort to whatever means necessary – including murder – to avoid sharing custody of the child with him? Again, absolutely. Since none of us were present at the trial and have no knowledge whatsoever of the evidence presented, there is no way we can make an informed decision on the appropriateness of the sentence. If there’s one thing that I’ve learned from my nearly seven decades on this planet, it’s that there’s no shortage of evil in people, and that men and women are equally prone to it. To believe otherwise is to ignore reality.
David
November 4, 2024 at 2:26 pm
If the report is accurate about the circumstances leading up to the shooting, I support what she did to protect herself and her child. My question also is why would you have the person your trying ti get sway from help you move?