Preparedness
Ex-Ballerina’s Guilty Verdict Sends Tremors Through Gun-Owner Community

Ashley Benefield, a former ballerina of 33 years, was found guilty in what has been dubbed the “Black Swan” murder trial. Benefield was convicted for the killing of her 58-year-old estranged husband, Doug Benefield, who she shot at her mother’s home in Bradenton, Florida, in 2020.
The couple had a whirlwind romance, meeting at a Republican Party fundraiser in 2016. At that time, Ashley was a young 24-year-old ballerina, and Doug was a 54-year-old Navy veteran and technology consultant. They tied the knot only 13 days after their first encounter.
Though charged with second-degree murder, a Manatee County jury in a Florida courtroom found Benefield guilty of the lesser crime of manslaughter. This crime carries a maximum prison sentence of 15 years in Florida. After the guilty verdict was announced, the presiding judge rescinded Benefield’s $100,000 bond and handed her over to the custody of the Manatee County Sheriff’s Office. Her sentencing date remains unknown.
Benefield’s defense, led by attorney Neil Taylor, argued that the fatal shooting was in self-defense. Taylor painted a picture of Doug as an abusive husband, stating that his client had filed numerous complaints about his abusive behavior with no subsequent action taken by authorities.
“Thirty years older than Ashley, he was obsessed with her, and he successfully portrayed himself as he was not in an effort to win her hand in marriage,” Taylor told the courtroom. He further alleged that Doug was a controlling, manipulative, and cunning man who regularly carried a loaded firearm.
“The only thing that is going to have been established here beyond a reasonable doubt is that Douglas Benefield was a violent abuser, Ashley Benefield’s efforts to placate him [were] absolutely consistent with what abused women do, especially when a child is involved, and that Ashley’s result and resource to deadly force was justified under the circumstances,” Taylor argued.
Their relationship seemed idyllic in the early days, according to Doug’s 23-year-old daughter from a previous marriage, Eva Benefield. “They were just with each other all the time. It was very lovey-dovey. They were very touchy-feely PDAs. Any event with school or extracurricular that I was in, they were together. They never left each other’s side,” Eva said.
A year after their wedding, Ashley was pregnant, and the couple had embarked on Ashley’s dream endeavor — the establishment of a ballet company. However, the relationship started to unravel and led to a court order that restricted the couple from contacting each other.
In the throes of this turmoil, Ashley moved from their South Carolina residence to her mother’s home in Florida while pregnant. She sought a domestic violence injunction against Doug, which would prevent him from seeing their child.
The state prosecutor, Assistant State Attorney Suzanne O’Donnell, portrayed the case as a custody battle that Ashley was determined to win at all costs. “The cost was the life of Doug Benefield, and that is murder,” she argued.
The fatal incident occurred on September 27, 2020, when Doug was allegedly assisting Ashley with moving. An argument ensued, leading Ashley to retrieve a handgun. She claimed that Doug slapped her, blocked her from leaving, and lunged at her, prompting her to shoot him.
Right after the incident, Benefield ran to her neighbor, John Sant’s house, and told him that Doug had attacked her. Sant’s 911 call was played during the trial, capturing Sant’s attempts to calm Ashley down.
However, the prosecutor, O’Donnell, argued that there was no evidence to support Ashley’s claim of physical assault. In contradiction to Ashley’s claim that Doug lunged at her, O’Donnell pointed out that the fatal bullet entered Doug’s body from the side, suggesting he wasn’t facing Ashley when she started shooting.
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Preparedness
5 Home Items You Can Use for Protection During Emergencies
Emergencies don’t always come with a warning. Power outages, break-ins, severe weather, or unexpected disturbances can leave you needing to protect yourself long enough to get to safety. While the goal is never to engage or escalate, having everyday household items you can rely on for protection can give you valuable time, confidence, and control.
The following items are commonly found in most homes and can be used responsibly to create distance, draw attention, or help you escape when needed.
- A Heavy-Duty Flashlight
A solid flashlight is one of the most useful protective tools in an emergency.
A bright beam can temporarily disorient someone in a dark room, allowing you to move away or secure a door. It also helps you navigate safely during power outages, avoid hazards, and signal for help.
Keep one near your bed and another in a main living area. Choose LED models with long battery life.
- A Fire Extinguisher
Most people think of fire extinguishers only for fires, but they also offer protection in other emergencies.
A quick spray creates a cloud that can block vision and breathing for a moment, giving you a chance to escape. The extinguisher itself is also sturdy enough to hold defensively while you move away from danger.
Every home should have at least one accessible extinguisher.
- A Sturdy Walking Cane or Umbrella
A cane or strong umbrella provides reach and distance without requiring physical strength.
These items can be used to keep space between you and a threat, block movement, or help you maneuver safely toward an exit. Many people already keep one near a door or bedroom, making it easy to grab quickly.
- A Loud Personal Alarm or Whistle
Sound is a powerful protective tool.
A personal alarm or whistle can startle an intruder, alert neighbors, and draw immediate attention to your situation. It’s especially helpful if shouting isn’t an option or if you live in close quarters like an apartment or townhome.
These devices are inexpensive, simple to use, and effective.
- A Doorstop or Heavy Furniture
Creating a barrier can be more effective than any object in your hands.
A basic rubber doorstop can slow or prevent a door from opening, buying you time to call for help or escape. Heavy furniture, when used carefully, can block entry points and turn a room into a temporary safe space.
Final Reminder
Protection during emergencies is about time and distance, not confrontation.
Use everyday items only as a last resort and only to help you reach safety or get help.
Preparation doesn’t mean fear — it means being ready to act calmly when it matters most.
Off The Grid
10 Emergency Medical Supplies to Carry for Survival During an Apocalypse
In any large-scale collapse scenario, medical help may be delayed or unavailable entirely. Hospitals may be overwhelmed, pharmacies closed, and emergency responders unable to reach you. In those moments, having the right medical supplies can mean the difference between a manageable injury and a life-threatening situation. A survival medical kit should focus on stopping bleeding, preventing infection, managing pain, and keeping you functional.
Here are ten critical medical supplies you should carry for survival during an apocalypse or any extreme emergency.
1. Tourniquet
Severe bleeding is one of the fastest ways people die from injuries. A proper tourniquet allows you to stop life-threatening blood loss from arms or legs within seconds. This is one of the most important items in any survival medical kit.
2. Compression Bandages
Compression bandages apply steady pressure to wounds and help control bleeding. They are especially useful for deep cuts, punctures, and traumatic injuries. They also help secure wound dressings in place when movement is unavoidable.
3. Sterile Gauze Pads
Gauze is essential for cleaning wounds, absorbing blood, and protecting injuries from dirt and bacteria. Carry multiple sizes so you can handle both small cuts and larger wounds. Clean wounds heal faster and are far less likely to become infected.
4. Antiseptic Wipes or Solution
Infections become deadly quickly when antibiotics are unavailable. Antiseptic wipes, iodine swabs, or antiseptic spray help kill bacteria before it enters the body. Cleaning a wound properly is just as important as stopping the bleeding.
5. Medical Tape
Medical tape secures bandages, gauze, and splints. It is lightweight, versatile, and far more reliable than improvised solutions. Tape can also be used to reinforce blisters and prevent minor injuries from getting worse during long travel.
6. Pain Relievers
Pain can limit movement, focus, and decision-making. Over-the-counter pain relievers help reduce inflammation, headaches, muscle pain, and fever. Staying mobile and alert during a survival situation is critical.
7. Antibiotic Ointment
Topical antibiotic ointment adds another layer of protection against infection. Even small cuts can turn serious when sanitation is poor. A small tube takes almost no space and can prevent days or weeks of complications.
8. Tweezers
Tweezers are vital for removing splinters, glass, thorns, ticks, and debris from wounds. Leaving foreign objects embedded in the skin increases infection risk and slows healing. Precision tools matter when conditions are rough.
9. Nitrile Gloves
Protecting yourself while treating injuries is essential. Gloves reduce the spread of bacteria and protect both the injured person and the caregiver. They are especially important when dealing with blood or open wounds.
10. Emergency Medical Guide
In a collapse scenario, you may need to treat injuries you have never dealt with before. A small first-aid or emergency medical guide gives step-by-step instructions when stress makes thinking difficult. Knowledge becomes as valuable as any tool you carry.
Final Thoughts
Medical preparedness is often overlooked in survival planning, yet injuries are more likely than dramatic threats. Cuts, falls, burns, and infections happen fast and worsen without care. Carrying these ten medical supplies gives you the ability to stabilize injuries, prevent infection, and stay functional when professional help is no longer available.
Off The Grid
5 Reasons to Store Canned Food for Survival
Canned food has been a survival staple for generations, and for good reason. When emergencies disrupt normal life, access to fresh food can disappear quickly. Power outages, storms, supply chain problems, and evacuations often leave people relying on what they already have at home. Storing canned food is one of the simplest and most reliable ways to prepare for the unexpected.
Here are five clear reasons canned food deserves a permanent place in any survival plan.
1. Long Shelf Life You Can Count On
One of the biggest advantages of canned food is how long it lasts. Most canned goods stay safe and edible for years when stored in a cool, dry place. This makes them ideal for emergencies that last longer than expected. Unlike fresh or frozen foods, canned items do not spoil quickly and do not require constant attention.
2. No Refrigeration or Electricity Needed
When the power goes out, refrigerators and freezers become useless. Canned food eliminates that risk entirely. You can store it safely at room temperature and eat it without worrying about spoilage. This makes canned food especially valuable during blackouts, winter storms, and heat waves.
3. Ready to Eat With Little or No Preparation
Many canned foods can be eaten straight from the can. Beans, vegetables, soups, meats, and fruits require no cooking, which is critical when fuel is limited or unsafe to use. Even if you cannot heat food, canned items still provide calories, hydration, and nutrients when your body needs them most.
4. Balanced Nutrition During Stressful Times
Survival is not just about calories. Your body needs protein, carbohydrates, fats, vitamins, and minerals to stay strong and alert. Canned foods make it easy to store a balanced mix of nutrition. Beans provide protein and fiber. Canned meats supply protein and fats. Vegetables and fruits offer vitamins that help prevent fatigue and illness during prolonged emergencies.
5. Affordable and Easy to Rotate
Canned food is one of the most budget-friendly survival options available. You can build a stockpile slowly by adding a few extra cans during regular grocery trips. Because canned foods are part of everyday meals, rotating them is simple. Use the oldest cans first and replace them with new ones. This keeps your supply fresh without waste.
Final Thoughts
Storing canned food is not about fear or extreme prepping. It is about common sense. These foods last a long time, require no power, are easy to prepare, and provide dependable nutrition when normal systems fail. A small, well-chosen supply of canned food can carry you through storms, outages, and unexpected disruptions with far less stress.
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Carl
August 3, 2024 at 12:22 pm
Maybe, just maybe, he turned at the last second realizing she was going to shoot. President Trump is a perfect example of how that works. If he hadnt turned he would be dead. Unfortunately or fortunately, it didnt work for this guy🤔
David Veselenak
August 3, 2024 at 1:28 pm
Bitch got away with murder, that simple! There is now a plethora of ” domestic violence” KILLINGS. aka MURDERS that are being invoked! It’s easy to portray this when the so-called perpetrator is not able to repute the charges which now are made-up fairy tales! I don’t see someone that was kind enough to assist in her/it’s moving all of a sudden turning into an ogre! This bitch got away with murder, as have several others that hadn’t reported such behavior by their spouse! WTFU, TRANSFORMED and TRANSGENDERED AMERIKA, you’ve been had, hope your glad as your demise neighs!
Don
August 3, 2024 at 3:18 pm
She should have just left to parts unknown. Now she is going to jail and he is dead. We will never know the real story.
Holly
August 3, 2024 at 7:28 pm
I side with the woman, she was pregnant & left to stay at her mothers, she tried to get away from him. Abusers can be very controlling & manipulating, I say this from past experiences. They try to keep you from your friends & family. They tear you down mentally & emotionally & physically. Horrible that she has to spend time in prison & hopefully her mother can keep the baby for her & he does not get custody!
Don
August 4, 2024 at 10:20 am
Knowing that part of the country as I do I’d tend to believe her story. Abuse is common.
Bill Clay
August 23, 2024 at 10:00 pm
Based on the critical evidence the 12 jurors agreed she made a bad choice by choosing manslaughter. She trusted him to help move.
RobertC
September 17, 2024 at 7:44 pm
Holly, It’s apparent from your comment that you either didn’t read the article or didn’t comprehend what you read. She wasn’t “left” to stay with her mother, she chose to move there and he was actually helping her move. You’re hoping that “her mother can keep the baby for her and he does not get custody” – that would be rather difficult since HE’S DEAD. Your typical knee-jerk reaction of believing all women regardless of circumstances has no place in a fair and just society. Is it possible that he was abusive and she acted in self defense? Absolutely. Is it also possible that she was willing to resort to whatever means necessary – including murder – to avoid sharing custody of the child with him? Again, absolutely. Since none of us were present at the trial and have no knowledge whatsoever of the evidence presented, there is no way we can make an informed decision on the appropriateness of the sentence. If there’s one thing that I’ve learned from my nearly seven decades on this planet, it’s that there’s no shortage of evil in people, and that men and women are equally prone to it. To believe otherwise is to ignore reality.
David
November 4, 2024 at 2:26 pm
If the report is accurate about the circumstances leading up to the shooting, I support what she did to protect herself and her child. My question also is why would you have the person your trying ti get sway from help you move?
William J Philllips
March 13, 2025 at 12:52 pm
It is entirely possible that he was invited to help her move simply so she could end his life. Very seldom do people see evil in women, but always in men. I have seen evil in women who have planned to end a life and claim self defense and i believe as I think the jury did that if he were so bad why did she have him help her move. A set up to murder, but the jury was duped by her lawyer