First off, he is a male, you can't make up what you want to be, born a male, always a male! Obviously he has a mental problem, like all the rest of them that exist, and the very few I know! This is caused by never telling your kid no, or some derainged so called professor or Dr. that you can change the unchangeable! If your kid is that whack, get them help before this kind of thing happens. If they're an adult, they're a lost cause! I see it every day!